Shake That Weight ™ • 15th January 2018 • 8 years ago
How To Stay On Track With Your New Years Resolutions
As we all know, New Year is a time when many of us make resolutions to change and improve our lives in some way. However, we also know that for most of us, itās not always quite that simple.
Whether itās stopping smoking, losing weight, taking up a hobby, or something else, it can be tough to stick to your New Yearās resolutions. If youāre struggling, here are some tips for staying the course and making these changes a part of your everyday life.
Donāt worry if you slip up
Only those with the most exceptional willpower and dedication will manage to take on their New Yearās resolutions without lapses from time to time, so you shouldnāt worry if you donāt go for that run or succumb to that piece of chocolate cake. The most important thing is that you carry on with your resolution and not beat yourself up about not sticking to it 100%.
Remind yourself how your resolution will improve your life
When things are getting tough, you can easily forget just why youāre doing it in the first place. Keep reminding yourself of your long term goals and try and resist putting those at risk for the sake of your short term urges. For example, if youāre trying to lose weight, focus on getting into that dress you love, or being able to play with your kids without being out of breath.
Break your resolution down into several mini resolutions
If youāre having a hard time sticking to your main goal, then try breaking it up into smaller, more manageable goals. For example, if youāre really struggling to quit smoking, then maybe move the goalposts and just focus on cutting down to 5 a day first before stopping completely. Likewise, if you wanted to run a half marathon but youāre not getting very far, then focus on a 10K first. Itāll feel much less of an undertaking and youāll feel like youāre making more tangible progress.
Reward yourself
If youāre setting yourself mini resolutions, as mentioned in the previous point, then you should reward yourself for hitting meeting those goals. Whether this is a meal out, a new pair of shoes, or whatever else, by rewarding yourself, you will give yourself a sense of progress and be more motivated to hit that next sub-goal and get another reward. Itās basic psychology but it works!
Keep a resolution diary
By keeping a diary of your progress, whether good or bad, you can clearly see how youāre getting on. When youāre struggling, you can read back through it, and itās guaranteed youāll be shocked at exactly how far youāve actually come, which is great motivation to keep going. Include photos as well for even more concrete evidence of your progress.
Donāt compare yourself with others
In the age of social media, it can be all too easy to compare yourself to others and whatās happening in their life. However, you need to remember that your resolutions are just that: yours. Donāt judge how youāre getting on by what other people are doing; just try and focus on the fantastic progress youāre making.
Get help from friends and family
Tell your friends and family about your resolutions and they will more than likely do their bit to help you, especially if you ask them to! They might make sure they cook something healthy if you go round for dinner, or they might join you on a run, or just check in with support every now and again.